The Sponsor Sort, The Honest Split and The House Rules — prepared by Edmund Bogen
A lender offers to split your Zillow bill. A title company offers to bring lunch to your open house. A car dealer wants to park two new SUVs in your listing’s driveway. Pooling resources with partners like these can put your name in front of more people. Done honestly, it is about reach, not about getting your marketing paid for: each partner promotes its own business and pays for what it actually gets, and nobody pays anybody for referrals. The pull to let a partner “cover it” is real: in NAR’s 2026 Member Profile (June 25, 2026), the typical REALTOR® spent $950 marketing their services and $620 marketing listings in 2025. This session gives you three systems, in order. The Sponsor Sort: know who is paying and which rules apply before any money moves. The Honest Split: each partner pays for its own share, measured by what it gets, in writing, straight to the vendor, with nothing tied to referrals. The House Rules: the seller signs one page before any sponsor arrives at a showing or open house. Car dealers and coffee trucks sit outside RESPA but not outside the rules: FTC disclosure, Florida license law, licenses, insurance, the HOA and fair housing still apply. You leave with a 30-day plan for Jan 6 to Feb 5, 2027.
A lender offers to split your Zillow bill. A title company offers to bring lunch to your open house. A car dealer wants to park two new SUVs in your listing’s driveway. Pooling resources with partners like these can put your name in front of more people. Done honestly, it is about reach, not about getting your marketing paid for: each partner promotes its own business and pays for what it actually gets, and nobody pays anybody for referrals. The pull to let a partner “cover it” is real: in NAR’s 2026 Member Profile (June 25, 2026), the typical REALTOR® spent $950 marketing their services and $620 marketing listings in 2025.
We will master 3 systems live, together:
1 · The Sponsor Sort — Know who’s paying, and which rules apply.
2 · The Honest Split — Each partner pays for its own share.
3 · The House Rules — The seller signs off before any sponsor arrives.
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Three systems, in order: know who is paying, split the cost honestly, and get the seller’s sign-off before any sponsor arrives.
| # | Module | The skill it teaches | Pages |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | What pooling is, and what it isn’t | Reach, not a subsidy; what agents spend; what portals and vendors offer; the open-house data | 4–8 |
| 2 | The rules | RESPA Section 8 and Reg X, CFPB guidance and cases, Florida title rules, FTC, license law, NAR | 9–15 |
| 3 | System 1: The Sponsor Sort | Two columns, the federal list, and one question | 16–20 |
| 4 | System 2: The Honest Split | Shares by what each partner gets: mail, portal ads, flyers, email | 21–28 |
| 5 | Open houses and showings with partners | Title, lender, car dealer, coffee truck | 29–32 |
| 6 | System 3: The House Rules | The seller’s one-page sign-off before any sponsor arrives | 33–36 |
| 7 | Your 30 days | Jan 6 to Feb 5, with three counts | 37–38 |
| ✓ | Assessment and appendices | Answer keys, Sponsor Sort card, prompts, partner lines, questions, glossary, sources | 39–52 |
Six exercises sit where each skill is taught. All use invented sample data: Avery Cole of Sample Realty Group, partners with “Sample” in every name, and 27 Mangrove Way. Do them on paper, then check Appendix A, which gives the reasoning, not just the answer.
Two earlier books promised this session under its working title, Split the Bill. This is that session. Where the library already teaches something, we point to it.
| When you need… | Use this | From the workbook |
|---|---|---|
| The fair-share rule for joint ads, and the line to say | Lesson 2.5; script #8 | The Golden Handcuffs Conversation (Nov 18, 2026) |
| Gifts, alcohol at events, RESPA basics, no referral pay to unlicensed people, the $25 tax line | Lessons 2.8 and 2.9 | Holiday Networking (Dec 2, 2026) |
| Calls and texts in Florida, line by line | Lesson 2.7; and Lesson 2.1 (page 11) of Selling to Nosy Neighbors | Holiday Networking (Dec 2, 2026); Selling to Nosy Neighbors (Dec 16, 2026) |
| Postage prices, EDDM, and the brokerage name on mail | Lessons 2.3 and 2.8; the cost table | Snail Mail in the Age of AI (Dec 9, 2026) |
| The seller’s written sign-off; a neighbors’ hour; a sign-in card with a separate permission box | The Seller’s Yes; The Front Porch | Selling to Nosy Neighbors (Dec 16, 2026) |
| Featuring a local business in your art | The Local Salute | Neighborhood Famous (Sep 16, 2026) |
| A fair-housing scan of copy and images; what happens to client data | The Fair Housing Firewall; The Data Line | Keeping AI Compliant (Sep 23, 2026) |
| Where the portals are heading | Zillow’s pay-at-close shift; sponsored AI answers | AI in 2027 (Nov 25, 2026) |
| The relationship side of partners | The Partner Web | Death of the Generalist (Sep 9, 2026) |
| The launch open house, and open houses by marketing path | The Launch Flywheel; The Three-Path Map | The Coming-Soon Machine (Aug 19, 2026); Private, Preview, or Public? (Nov 11, 2026) |
New here: the Sponsor Sort of every would-be partner against the federal settlement-service list; Florida’s title rule, 69B-186.010, line by line; the CFPB cases that show where the line was drawn; how Zillow describes its lender co-marketing program; the FTC’s Endorsement Guides and “material connection,” its review rule (16 CFR Part 465) and CAN-SPAM’s one-sender rule for shared email; Florida’s rules for a dealer’s cars (320.27(5)) and a food truck (509.102, 509.241); HUD’s 2010 home-warranty example; and the House Rules page for any sponsored showing. The Local Salute celebrates a business. When that business pays you, or gives you goods or services, it becomes a paid partnership, and the FTC’s disclosure rule applies (page 14).
An earlier version of The New Real Estate Battleground (May 20, 2026) called referral fees from preferred lenders and title companies “ancillary income.” RESPA Section 8 bars those payments (12 CFR 1024.14(b)). The page was corrected on Nov 6, 2026.
Snail Mail in the Age of AI (Dec 9, 2026) said to ask your broker when a lender’s or title company’s name or money is on a piece. Selling to Nosy Neighbors (Dec 16, 2026) said to take any cost-sharing offer to your broker before you accept it. That advice stands. This book gives you the questions to bring.
Two businesses that want the same audience share one piece of marketing, and each pays for the part it gets. That is the whole idea.
Pooling resources means two or more businesses share the cost of one piece of marketing that reaches people all of them want to reach: a postcard to a neighborhood, a portal ad, a flyer, an open house. Each partner promotes its own business on it and pays for what it actually gets. Nobody pays anybody for referrals. Done that way, each partner’s name reaches the whole audience while it pays only for its own part of the piece. That is the benefit, and it is the only one this book claims.
| The offer you will hear | What it really is | What decides it | Lesson |
|---|---|---|---|
| “Let’s split your Zillow ads.” | A lender pays part of your portal advertising through the portal’s program | Whether the lender’s share matches what the lender gets, and nothing tied to referrals | 4.7 |
| “Put my logo on your postcards.” | A co-branded mailer with a lender or title company | Each partner pays its own share of design, print and postage | 4.5 |
| “Our title company will cover the food.” | A title agency paying for your open house | In Florida, a title agency may not just drop off food. It attends, markets title and pays its share. | 5.1 |
| “I’ll park two new cars at your showing.” | A local business on your seller’s property | The seller’s written yes; the dealer’s license if the cars are for sale; disclosure | 5.3 |
| “We’ll bring the coffee truck.” | Another local business at your open house | The truck’s state license, the HOA, and the disclosure on your post | 5.4 |
The typical REALTOR® runs a lean marketing budget. That is the honest reason a partner who offers to “cover it” sounds good.
| NAR 2026 Member Profile, medians for 2025 | All REALTORS® | Sales agents | Brokers and broker-associates |
|---|---|---|---|
| Total business expenses | $9,530 | $7,490 | $15,570 |
| Marketing of services | $950 | $870 | $1,170 |
| Marketing of listings | $620 | $530 | $820 |
| Technology products and services | $740 | $640 | $900 |
| Lead generation · website · social-media advertising | $0 each | $0 each | $0 each |
NAR, “Even in a Tougher Market, REALTORS® Are Holding Their Ground,” by Melissa Dittmann Tracey, with the chart “Member Report 2026: Expenses,” June 25, 2026. Method, per the methodology page of NAR’s 2026 Florida Member Profile: NAR e-mailed the survey in March 2026 to a random sample of 286,777 members and received 5,116 responses (adjusted response rate 1.7%). Figures are weighted to state membership; the financial data are for calendar 2025. NAR says results “may not be comparable to previous Member Profile publications due to changes in questionnaire design.” A $0 median means at least half of members reported spending nothing in that category.
A median of $950 and a median of $620 do not add up to a typical $1,570. Adding medians is not valid, and NAR publishes no median for total marketing. Quote each figure with its label.
| NAR 2026 Florida Member Profile (posted Aug 2026) | Florida | National |
|---|---|---|
| Median total business expenses | $8,240 | $9,530 |
| Median gross income · median net income | $41,000 · $27,000 | $59,200 · $37,000 |
| Typical transaction sides | 5 | 9 |
NAR’s national release puts 2025 median expenses at $9,530, up from $8,010 in 2024, and median gross income at $59,200, up from $58,100. By our arithmetic that is about 19% more in costs and about 2% more in income. Read that with NAR’s own warning that the questionnaire changed. The Florida edition does not break out marketing or technology spending, and it rests on 445 responses.
Each program is described in the company’s own words or a filing, with the date we read it. A description is not a recommendation, and none of them is a legal clearance.
| Who, and where we read it | What they say | Read it as |
|---|---|---|
| Zillow, lender co-marketing (Help Center and co-marketing FAQ, checked Nov 4, 2026) | The agent invites a lender and sets its dollar contribution, “up to 50 percent of the agent’s total spend per lender.” The lender pays Zillow, not the agent, billed in arrears, and appears alongside the agent’s ads. When a shopper also asks about financing, Zillow sends that contact to the co-marketing lender. Within the program, lenders and agents may not refer business to each other. If the lender does not pay, Zillow bills the agent. | Company program terms, not law, and they can change. The 50% is a product cap, not a fair-share test. The agent carries the risk if the lender walks. |
| Zillow, Q2 2026 shareholder letter (8-K, Aug 5, 2026) | Calls agent advertising and lender co-marketing its “legacy advertising model,” and is moving connections to Zillow Preferred, where agents pay a fee at closing. Targets more than 75% of connections in Preferred by the end of 2026. | We did not find how lender co-marketing works under Preferred. Check your own product. |
| Realtor.com (News Corp 10-K, fiscal year ended June 30, 2026) | Subscription lead and listing products (RealPRO Select, Connections Plus, Listing Toolkit) and pay-at-close referral services such as RealChoice Selling. | No agent–lender co-marketing program described; no prices given. |
| Homes.com (membership page via search index, Nov 4, 2026) | A 6- or 12-month membership; says it never sells leads to other agents and never takes a commission. RISMedia reported about $3,400 a year in April 2026, before a price rise for new members from May 1. | No lender co-marketing program found. The price is a reporter’s figure. |
| Homebot (pricing page, as displayed Nov 4, 2026) | Agent “Partner” plan $25 a month plus $50 setup, “Lender co-sponsorship required”; “Solo” plan $50 a month with no co-sponsor. | Vendor claim. If your price is lower because a lender sponsors you, ask your broker how that difference is treated (page 9). |
| Evocalize (product page, © 2026) | “One program cost, shared between both partners.” Claims a “patented cost-sharing structure built specifically to meet RESPA requirements.” | Vendor claim. A vendor’s design is not a legal ruling, and its performance figures are not typical. |
| Fidelity National Financial, marketing catalog for its title agencies (undated) | Title, escrow and wire-fraud pieces, ads and videos, some co-brandable, for agencies to use with REALTORS®, lenders and attorneys. | Branded with the title company’s own message. Who pays for printing decides the rest. |
Open houses are where agents and partners meet buyers. Local-business sponsorship has no data at all. Both facts shape the plan.
| From the NAR 2026 Home Buyers and Sellers Generational Trends (April 2026) | Share | Exhibit |
|---|---|---|
| Buyers who used open houses as an information source | 48% | 3-2 |
| Buyers who found the home they bought through a yard sign or open-house sign | 5% | 3-4 |
| Buyers who said visiting open houses was their first step | 3% | 3-1 |
| Buyers who found their agent by visiting an open house · buyers aged 18–26 | 5% · 13% | 4-4 |
| Sellers whose agent held an open house · used direct mail | 59% · 9% | 7-7 |
NAR mailed a 120-question survey in July 2025 to 173,250 people who bought a primary residence between July 2024 and June 2025, and received 6,103 responses (adjusted response rate 3.5%, ±1.25% at 95% confidence). It is the same survey as the 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers. Seller figures come from buyers who also sold. As of Nov 4, 2026, NAR had not released the 2026 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers.
Our reading. NAR’s 5% is one combined category, “yard sign/open house sign,” so it does not measure open houses alone. A sign rarely sells the house: about 1 buyer in 20 found the home they bought through a yard sign or open-house sign. Open houses are where agents meet future clients: 48% of buyers used them, and the youngest buyers met their agent at one at more than twice the overall rate. A lender who also wants to meet buyers has a real reason to share the cost of an open house, as long as it pays for its own part.
| Example | Source | Read it as |
|---|---|---|
| A car brand delivered two vehicles to a listing for a VIP event. No terms given. The author also suggests art galleries, designers, wineries, chefs and watchmakers as partners. | Mauricio Umansky, Inman, Mar 8, 2024 | Coach advice, first person. With no terms, there is no model to copy. |
| Ask local coffee, smoothie or wine shops whether they would like to partner on refreshments. | Jameson Doris, RISMedia, Feb 6, 2022 | Coach advice. |
| Partner with a local bakery, flower shop or home-decor store. | PNC (a lender), Jun 26, 2024 | Lender editorial. |
Every line below is sourced. Each says who found it and when. Use them with partners, in office meetings and with your broker.
| A line you can say | Source |
|---|---|
| “The typical REALTOR® spent $950 marketing their services and $620 marketing listings in 2025.” | NAR 2026 Member Profile (June 25, 2026); medians, quoted separately |
| “At least half of REALTORS® spent nothing on lead generation, a website or social ads in 2025.” | NAR 2026 Member Profile (June 25, 2026); median $0 in each |
| “In Florida, the typical member grossed $41,000 and spent about $8,200 running the business.” | NAR 2026 Florida Member Profile (445 responses) |
| “About half of buyers use open houses, and about 1 in 20 found the home they bought through a yard sign or an open-house sign.” | NAR 2026 Home Buyers and Sellers Generational Trends (April 2026); 48% and 5% |
| “Zillow lets a lender contribute up to half of an agent’s spend. That’s Zillow’s limit, not the law’s.” | Zillow Help Center, checked Nov 4, 2026 |
| “EDDM postage is 26 cents a piece, so a 1,000-piece route is $260 before printing.” | USPS Notice 123 (effective Oct 4, 2026); our arithmetic |
Seven lines you might hear in an office meeting this month (sample wording). For each, write Keep, Fix or Drop, and then the version you would say. Use facts from this module, and page 11 for item 3.
Answer key: Appendix A, page 40.
A few lines of federal law decide most lender and title arrangements. They reach both sides: the one who gives and the one who takes.
| Rule | In plain words | Source |
|---|---|---|
| No referral fees | No one may give or accept “any fee, kickback, or thing of value” under an agreement, “oral or otherwise,” to refer settlement business. A referral is never a service anyone can be paid for, whatever the agreement calls it. | 12 U.S.C. 2607(a); 12 CFR 1024.14(b) |
| No unearned splits | No one may give or accept part of a settlement charge “other than for services actually performed.” A fee for nominal work, such as a logo nobody sees or an ad that never runs, is unearned. | 2607(b); 1024.14(c) |
| Real goods and services may be paid for | A payment “for goods or facilities actually furnished or for services actually performed” is allowed. This is the legal basis for co-marketing: a partner pays for real advertising at a real price. | 2607(c)(2); 1024.14(g)(1)(iv) |
| Agent-to-agent referral fees are separate | Cooperative brokerage and referral arrangements between agents and brokers are exempt. That exemption does not cover fees between agents and lenders. | 2607(c)(3); 1024.14(g)(1)(v) |
| “Thing of value” is broad | Money, discounts, services at special rates or at no charge, sales or rentals at special prices, trips, and paying another person’s expenses. A “payment” “does not require transfer of money.” | 2602(2); 1024.14(d) |
| You are on the list | Reg X lists “rendering of services by a real estate agent or real estate broker” as a settlement service. You are always on the receiving side of Section 8. | 1024.2(b)(14) |
| Who can act, and how long they have | A fine of up to $10,000, up to one year in prison, or both. Violators are liable for three times the settlement charge. Private suits within 1 year; the CFPB, HUD, or a state attorney general or insurance commissioner within 3 years. | 2607(d)(1), (2), (4); 2614 |
Three checks drawn from Reg X (our framing, not the regulation’s words). Run every plan through all three. The agreement can be proven without a word in writing.
Check 2 in the rule’s words. “If the payment of a thing of value bears no reasonable relationship to the market value of the goods or services provided, then the excess is not for services or goods actually performed or provided.” The value of any referrals is not counted in setting market value, and the fact that the client paid nothing extra “is irrelevant.” Price the ad as if the partner were a stranger buying ad space.
Check 3 in the rule’s words. An agreement to refer “need not be written or verbalized but may be established by a practice, pattern or course of conduct.” The cases show what gives it away: fees set by referral counts, exclusivity, “preferred lender” endorsements, required prequalification, and loan officers asking for referrals in return for marketing help. Saying “we never agreed to anything” does not help if the pattern shows otherwise.
| Point | What the FAQ says |
|---|---|
| No small-gift exception | “There is no exception to RESPA Section 8 solely based on the value of the gift or promotion.” The CFPB looks at whether an item is “targeted narrowly towards prior, ongoing, or future referral sources,” how often it is given, and whether it is something the referral source “would otherwise have to pay for themselves.” |
| Branding decides it | Office supplies branded with the referral source’s name or logo are “more likely to defray expenses”; supplies with the provider’s own logo are “less likely to defray expenses.” A pen with the title company’s logo is one thing. Your farm postcards, paid for by the title company, are another. |
| Open to everyone | A seminar open to the public and to all local agents, “regardless of their status as referral sources,” is “more likely” to qualify. |
| Marketing, not referral | A marketing service “is generally targeted at a wide audience,” such as ads “in widely circulated media.” An MSA can be unlawful if it pays for referrals, pays above “reasonable market value,” pays for services “not actually performed,” or pays “based on the number of referrals received.” |
| No fair-share FAQ | The FAQs contain no co-marketing or “fair share” answer. The pro-rata idea comes from older HUD guidance, which we know only as NAR quotes it (page 21). |
CFPB, RESPA FAQs: Gifts and Promotional Activity FAQs 1–3 and MSA FAQs 1–4, each “Updated Oct. 7, 2020”; page last modified Mar 15, 2024. Not on the CFPB’s Withdrawn Guidance list (last modified Jul 22, 2026). Checked Nov 4, 2026. The 2015 MSA bulletin was rescinded on Oct 7, 2020; do not quote it as current.
Primary sources only. Each row says what was paid for and how it ended. Allegations and dismissals are labelled as such.
| Matter (date) | What was paid for | Outcome |
|---|---|---|
| Lighthouse Title (Sep 30, 2014) | Marketing services agreements with real estate brokers and others, priced “in part, by considering how many referrals it had received,” with no market-value analysis. | $200,000 civil penalty; must end its MSAs and enter no more |
| Genuine Title, with Wells Fargo and JPMorgan Chase (Jan 22, 2015; with the Maryland attorney general) | The title company “gave the banks’ loan officers cash, marketing materials, and consumer information,” including letters with the banks’ logos that it printed, folded, stuffed into envelopes and mailed. | Proposed: $24 million (Wells Fargo), $600,000 (Chase), $11.1 million redress. Final entered amounts not verified. |
| Prospect Mortgage (Jan 31, 2017), with RGC Services (RE/MAX Gold Coast) and Willamette Legacy (KW Mid-Willamette) | Lead fees, desk licenses, MSAs, and paying “for a portion of a real estate agent’s advertisements on a third party website” while its loan officers required agents to promote it exclusively. The order found those payments “were actually payments for referrals.” RGC’s agents required buyers to prequalify with Prospect; KW Mid-Willamette gave agents dues credits per referral. | Prospect $3.5 million; RGC $50,000; Willamette $145,000 disgorgement plus a $35,000 penalty |
| Meridian Title (Sep 27, 2017) | Steered consumers to an affiliated title insurer, partly owned by Meridian executives, without affiliated-business disclosures. | Up to $1.25 million redress; disclosures required |
| Zillow, CFPB investigation (2015 to June 22, 2018) | The CFPB considered alleging Section 8 violations involving the Premier Agent co-marketing program. | Closed with no enforcement action. No finding either way. |
| Shotwell v. Zillow Group (W.D. Wash., Apr 19, 2019) | A securities class action. On a motion to dismiss, the court held the complaint “plausibly alleges that RESPA violations were occurring.” | A pleading-stage ruling, not a finding on the merits |
| Freedom Mortgage (Aug 17, 2023; based in Boca Raton, Florida), with Realty Connect USA Long Island | MSAs with more than 40 brokerages; premium data subscriptions at no charge to more than 2,000 agents; catered parties and event tickets. Realty Connect received “$6,000 per month” and “failed to perform many of the marketing tasks.” When one agent asked for help promoting an open house, the loan officer replied asking for “some referrals.” | Freedom $1.75 million; Realty Connect $200,000 |
| Rocket Homes (filed Dec 23, 2024) | Alleged: a referral network sending buyer leads to brokerages that were required to steer buyers to Rocket Mortgage. | Voluntarily dismissed with prejudice, Feb 27, 2025. No ruling. |
Federal enforcement fell off. That is not a safe harbor: the statute, Regulation X, private suits and state officials are all still there.
| What changed | What did not |
|---|---|
| On May 12, 2025, the CFPB withdrew 67 guidance documents (90 FR 20084), including Circular 2024-01 on steering by digital intermediaries. | The RESPA FAQs and the Feb 2023 advisory opinion on digital comparison-shopping platforms (88 FR 9162) were not on the list. Neither was found withdrawn as of Nov 4, 2026. |
| The CFPB voluntarily dismissed its Rocket Homes suit with prejudice on Feb 27, 2025. | RESPA itself and Reg X sections 1024.14 and 1024.15 are unchanged. The eCFR history dates their last substantive amendment Jan 1, 2017. |
| The CFPB’s priorities page (last modified May 28, 2026) says it “will focus on actual fraud against consumers” and “will shift resources away from enforcement and supervision that can be done by the States.” It lists mortgages as “getting the highest priority.” | Private plaintiffs can still sue for three times the settlement charge, within 1 year. State attorneys general and insurance commissioners can still sue to stop violations, within 3 years. |
| The 2015 bulletin on marketing services agreements was rescinded on Oct 7, 2020. | On June 27, 2025, the CFPB listed Section 8 among “criminal regulatory offenses” it may refer to the Department of Justice (90 FR 27530). |
| A July 9, 2026 request for information on mortgage credit (91 FR 42382) covers other disclosures. | It proposes no Section 8 change. |
The 2023 advisory opinion, for portals. It says a digital mortgage comparison-shopping platform takes an illegal referral fee when it presents providers non-neutrally, that steers the consumer, and it is paid at least in part for that. A footnote adds that advertising arrangements “where actual services are being provided and reasonable payment is being received are compensable services under RESPA section 8 depending on the facts and circumstances.” Our reading: paying for placement or steering, as opposed to neutral ads, is where the risk sits.
A court and the CFPB have read market value two ways. In PHH Corp. v. CFPB (D.C. Cir. 2016; its RESPA holdings reinstated en banc in 2018, which we confirmed only through secondary summaries), the court held that Sections 8(a) and 8(c) allowed the arrangement before it (captive reinsurance) so long as the payer paid “no more than reasonable market value” for services actually provided. The CFPB’s 2014 Lighthouse order said that entering a contract can itself be a thing of value “even if the fees paid under that contract are fair market value.” Do not build a plan that depends on which view wins. Keep every payment at market value and keep it away from referrals.
In Florida, a state rule names your open houses, your listing ads and your flyers as things a title agency may not pay for. Florida also names real estate brokers on the receiving side.
Fla. Stat. 626.9541(1)(h)3 bars a title insurer, agent or agency from giving “any special favor or advantage, or any monetary consideration or inducement whatever,” and bars anyone connected with the transaction, “including, but not limited to, any mortgage broker, real estate broker, builder, or attorney,” from knowingly receiving one. Title advertising merchandise is capped at $25 an item (626.9541(1)(m)2).
Fla. Admin. Code R. 69B-186.010 (Department of Financial Services), new Feb 9, 2016, amended May 13, 2018. The rule is 69B, not 69O: 69O-186.010 is a different rule, repealed in 2016.
The same page says “You cannot provide food and drinks for the realtor’s open house at no cost to them,” that sharing food costs requires paying “a proportional share of those costs,” and that it is a violation to “sponsor and cater realtor open houses.” For a shared ad where realtor content is 80%, “the most the title agent/agency should pay is 20%.” A title agency may not describe the home, give tours, hand out flyers about the home, “man the event” without a Realtor, or promote listings. Broker opens call for extra caution (Florida DFS, “Compliance Information: Title Insurance Agents,” undated, checked Nov 4, 2026).
A car dealer or coffee roaster is not a settlement service. These rules apply to every partner, on the list or off it.
| Rule | What it says | Source |
|---|---|---|
| FTC: disclose the connection | When a connection between an endorser and a seller “might materially affect the weight or credibility” of an endorsement and the audience would not expect it, it “must be disclosed clearly and conspicuously.” Material connections include money and products given at no charge or at a discount, “regardless of whether the advertiser requires an endorsement in return.” A tag in a social post can be an endorsement. Advertisers are expected to guide and monitor their endorsers. | 16 CFR 255.0(b), 255.1(d), 255.5(a) (Endorsement Guides, revised 2023) |
| FTC: no reviews for rewards | A business may not give incentives conditioned on a review “expressing a particular sentiment, whether positive or negative.” No fake reviews, no undisclosed reviews by officers or managers, no fake followers or likes. | 16 CFR 465.2, 465.4, 465.5, 465.8 (effective Oct 21, 2024) |
| CAN-SPAM: one sender | When more than one business is promoted in one email, each is a “sender,” unless one is named alone in the From line and meets the Act’s duties. Decide in writing who sends and who runs the opt-out. | 16 CFR 316.2(m) |
| Florida: the brokerage name | “All real estate advertisements must include the licensed name of the brokerage firm.” Online, it sits next to the contact details. The rule has no team-name provision, so a team name alone is not enough. Our reading: sponsor logos are fine if readers would know they are dealing with a licensee. | Fla. Admin. Code R. 61J2-10.025(1), (3)(a); Snail Mail, Lesson 2.8 |
| Florida: no referral pay to unlicensed people | No fee “or other compensation” to an unlicensed person for referring real estate business. A second-degree misdemeanor. | Fla. Stat. 475.25(1)(h); 475.42(1)(e), (2); Holiday Networking, Lesson 2.8 |
| NAR Code, for members | Disclose financial benefits when you recommend a service (Art. 6; SOP 6-1). Your firm’s name on every ad (SOP 12-5). Do not say your services cost the client nothing if you are paid from any source (SOP 12-1). Disclose before you share consumer information gathered online (SOP 12-11). | 2026 Code, effective Jan 1, 2026 |
| Florida calls and texts | Florida’s Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception. If a partner plan involves calls or texts, it applies on top of everything else. | Fla. Stat. 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4), verified Nov 4, 2026; Holiday Networking 2.7; Selling to Nosy Neighbors, page 11 |
Disclosure is required in several places. It makes a payment lawful in only one: a business you actually own, disclosed the way the rule requires.
The only route where disclosure decides it. RESPA’s disclosure route is for affiliated business arrangements: you have an ownership interest, you give the written disclosure in the required format, nobody is required to use the provider, and the only thing you receive is a return on ownership (2607(c)(4); 1024.15). Co-marketing between unaffiliated companies cannot use it. Meridian Title (2017) is the failure case.
Where disclosure is required but does not cure. Florida’s licensing rule requires a licensee to disclose any kickback or rebate to all affected parties in advance (61J2-10.028). NAR Article 6 requires disclosure of financial benefits when you recommend a service. The FTC requires disclosure of material connections. On our reading, disclosure satisfies those duties, but it does not make a Section 8 kickback lawful, and it does not satisfy Florida’s title statute.
Eight situations, all sample data. For each, write Permitted, Prohibited or Ask, and the rule that decides it.
Answer key: Appendix A, page 40.
Know who’s paying, and which rules apply. Two columns, one federal list, and one question at the end.
| Business | Column | On the list? | Note |
|---|---|---|---|
| Lender, mortgage broker | RESPA | (1)–(3) | Module 2 applies in full. |
| Title company, closing or settlement agent | RESPA + Florida title | (4), (9) | Florida rule 69B-186.010 on top (page 13). |
| Attorney, notary, document preparer · appraiser, credit reports | RESPA | (5)–(7) | |
| Home inspector, pest (WDO) inspector | RESPA | (8) | Agents often assume otherwise. Inspections are listed. |
| Homeowners, hazard or flood insurer or agent · home warranty company | RESPA | (11) | Home warranty: HUD’s 2010 open-house example (page 17). |
| Mortgage life or disability insurer | RESPA if required | (12) | Only if the lender requires it. |
| You, the agent or broker | RESPA | (14) | Always on the receiving side. |
| Car dealer · coffee roaster or truck · bakery · florist · restaurant · wine shop | Local business | Not listed | Outside Section 8. Other rules stay (page 14). |
| Stager, photographer, cleaner, landscaper · furniture store | Local business | Not listed | Our reading: outside in the normal case, when the seller chooses them. |
| Mover | Local, usually | (15) edge | Outside unless a settlement provider requires the borrower or seller to pay for it. Our reading. |
| Contractor or handyman | Local, usually | (15) edge | If a lender requires the repair, it may fall under (15). Our reading. |
Every list member faces the same three checks, plus Florida’s title rule for title. Verdicts are our reading of the cited sources; your broker decides.
| Pattern | Verdict | Why |
|---|---|---|
| A joint ad to the public; proportionate space and share at market rates; in writing; invoices kept | Permitted | 2607(c)(2); 1024.14(g)(2); MSA FAQ 2; Fla. 69B-186.010(5)(d) |
| A co-branded mailer: each party has its own panel and pays its share of design, print and postage | Permitted, documented | 1024.14(g)(2); Fla. (5)(d); our reading |
| A lender pays part of your portal spend through the portal’s program and appears in the ads; no referral understanding | Only if the share tracks what it gets | Zillow terms; 1024.14(g)(2) |
| A lender’s or title company’s share rises and falls with referrals | Prohibited | 1024.14(e); CFPB MSA FAQ 3; Lighthouse |
| A portal subsidy on condition that you promote the lender exclusively or steer buyers | Prohibited | Prospect (2017); 1024.14(b), (e) |
| A list member pays for your mailers, farm postcards or listing flyers | Prohibited | 1024.14(d), (g)(1)(vi); Gifts FAQ 2; Genuine Title; Fla. (4)(f), (m) |
| A lender’s own rate sheet that you hand buyers, with no listing promotion | Permitted | NAR RESPA FAQ; Gifts FAQ 2 |
| A lender flyer that also promotes your listing | Not permitted: the lender would be paying part of your advertising | NAR RESPA FAQ |
| A seminar open to the public and to all local agents, with any CE charged at market value | Likely permitted | Gifts FAQ 3 |
| Tools, subscriptions, virtual tours or design work at no charge to agents; parties or tickets for agents who refer | Prohibited | Gifts FAQs 1–3; Freedom Mortgage; Reg X App. B; Fla. (4)(i), (r) |
| A title agency’s logo items for agents, up to $25 each in Florida, no gift cards | Permitted | Fla. Stat. 626.9541(1)(m)2; (5)(a); Gifts FAQ 2 |
| A “preferred lender” or “featured title partner” badge on your site or signs, in exchange for payments | Prohibited for Florida title; high risk for lenders | Fla. (4)(n); Prospect |
| Requiring buyers to prequalify with one lender before you present offers | Prohibited | 1024.14(f)(2); RGC Services |
| An MSA where you “perform” marketing for a lender that is nominal, not done, or above market | Prohibited | MSA FAQ 4; 1024.14(c), (g)(2); Realty Connect |
HUD’s 2010 interpretive rule, covered by the CFPB’s 2011 statement that it would apply earlier HUD guidance pending further CFPB action (76 FR 43569): an agent “distributing the HWC’s promotional material … at an open house is considered to be a referral” (75 FR 36271, June 25, 2010). A home warranty company paying for your open house so its brochures sit on the counter is the textbook case: RESPA column.
A car dealer, coffee roaster, stager, mover or furniture store can help you reach people. Here is what still applies to each.
| Partner | What it may do | What still applies |
|---|---|---|
| Car dealer | Park cars at a showing or open house as staging, with the seller’s written yes | Offering cars for sale away from its lot needs a supplemental off-premises license (Fla. Stat. 320.27(5)); our reading is that a priced display counts. Only the dealer may advertise them for sale (320.27(2)). Insurance in writing. FTC disclosure if you promote it. No referral pay to its staff (475.25(1)(h)). |
| Coffee roaster or coffee truck, bakery | Serve refreshments at the house | A food truck needs its state license (509.241). The HOA can still say no. FTC disclosure on your posts. No reward for reviews (16 CFR 465.4). |
| Wine shop | Our default: nothing at a public open house | Selling alcohol needs a license (562.12); never serve anyone under 21 (562.11). Whether a pour at no charge needs a permit: not found. |
| Stager or furniture store | Furnish rooms, and leave its cards if the seller agrees | The seller’s terms for the property (SOP 1-16). FTC disclosure if you praise goods lent to you at no charge. |
| Mover | Hand out its information, if the seller agrees | Usually off the list (our reading). No referral pay to its staff. |
| Any of them, in a shared ad | Share the cost of a co-branded ad | Your licensed brokerage name (61J2-10.025); one sender for email (316.2(m)); open to everyone (42 U.S.C. 3604(c)). |
Paying the dealer, the barista or the stager for sending you clients is barred in Florida: no fee “or other compensation” to an unlicensed person for referring real estate business (475.25(1)(h)). On our reading, that includes a gift card, a discount, or a car detail at no charge that is tied to the referral. Paying them fair value for goods or services is a different thing.
The reverse, a dealer paying you for sending it car buyers, is not RESPA, because a car is not a settlement service, and not 475.25(1)(h), because you are licensed. Florida law still reaches it. Only a licensed dealer “may advertise for sale any motor vehicle belonging to another party” (Fla. Stat. 320.27(2)), so you never advertise the dealer’s cars for sale and never act as its salesperson. Any compensation must be disclosed: Florida’s kickback rule requires full advance disclosure when it touches a transaction you are handling (61J2-10.028), and on our reading NAR Article 6’s disclosure duty is the standard to follow. If you promote the dealer, the FTC disclosure applies too. Clear it with your broker before you agree to anything.
Sample data. Avery Cole, of Sample Realty Group, has five offers on her desk for January. She runs the Sponsor Sort with Prompt 1, then checks it by hand.
| # | Column | First question | Next step |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | RESPA (lender) | What does Harbor get for $300 a month, and is it in proportion to its share of the ad? Is anything tied to referrals? | The Honest Split (Module 4); the portal’s current terms |
| 2 | RESPA + Florida title | Florida bars a title agency from sponsoring, hosting or catering an agent’s open house ((4)(k), (l)). | Reframe: the rep attends, markets title and pays its share (page 29) |
| 3 | Local business | Staging only, or for sale? Insurance? The seller’s written yes? | The House Rules (Module 6) |
| 4 | Local business | The truck’s state license, the HOA’s answer, and the disclosure on the tagged post | The House Rules; the FTC line (page 14) |
| 5 | Looks local; it is title money | “Is a list member paying through them?” Yes. | RESPA column. Decline, and say why (below). |
Prompt 1 first placed offer 5 in the local-business column, because Avery had typed “stager.” The prompt’s own rule then flagged it: the invoice goes to a title agency. Avery moved it. A title agency paying to stage her listing would be paying a cost she or her seller would otherwise carry, a thing of value (1024.14(d)). In Florida, the title rule also names non-title services provided to a referrer, such as an agent, without a charge “commensurate with the actual cost” (69B-186.010(3), (4)(r)). Her reply: “Thank you, but I can’t accept staging paid for by a title company. If you’d like to quote my seller directly, I’m glad to pass it on.”
All sample data. Sort each one before you open the answer key. Two of them change columns once you look past the business type: one because of who pays the invoice, one because a lender requires it (item 15).
For each, write RESPA or Local business, and the first rule or step that applies.
Answer key: Appendix A, page 41.
| Test | If yes |
|---|---|
| Is the business named in 12 CFR 1024.2(b), items (1) to (14)? | RESPA column. In Florida, add the title rule for title. |
| Does a settlement provider require the borrower or seller to pay for it? | It may fall under item (15). Our reading: treat it as RESPA and ask your broker. |
| Is a list member paying the invoice, in whole or in part? | RESPA column, whatever the business is. |
| Will it be on the seller’s property? | Whatever the column, the House Rules (Module 6). |
| Will you praise it in a post, ad or email? | FTC disclosure of any material connection (page 14). |
“Honest,” not “even.” The share follows what each partner actually gets, in writing, paid straight to the vendor, with nothing tied to referrals.
| Who says it | What they say | Date |
|---|---|---|
| NAR (RESPA topic page) | “If one party is paying more than a pro rata share for the advertisement, the additional costs could be viewed as a disguised payment for referral.” Fair market value is “what a non-settlement service provider would pay.” | Checked Nov 4, 2026 |
| NAR RESPA FAQ, quoting older HUD guidance | “[N]othing in RESPA prevents joint advertising,” but “if one party is paying less than a pro rata share for the brochure or advertisement, there could be a RESPA violation.” A 50/50 ad with 50/50 space appears compliant. | Aug 30, 2017 (page date) |
| Florida Realtors | “Each party should pay a prorated share.” If the title company has one-third of the page and the Realtor two-thirds, a 50/50 split “could be an issue.” | Updated Feb 9, 2026 |
| Florida DFS (for title) | If realtor content is 80% of a shared ad, “the most the title agent/agency should pay is 20%.” | Undated; checked Nov 4, 2026 |
| Stewart Title (a title company) | Cost “in direct proportion to each party’s prominence and space.” Pay the printer or mail house directly, and keep the invoices. | Oct 6, 2017 |
Space is the easy part. Prominence and lead access count too. Then it all goes on one page, signed before anything is ordered.
| What to measure | How | Why it matters |
|---|---|---|
| Space | The partner’s area ÷ the area of the whole piece | A quarter panel is about a quarter of the cost (our arithmetic on the proportional method Florida Realtors and DFS describe) |
| Prominence | Front or back, logo size, headline or footer | Stewart Title: in proportion to “prominence and space” |
| Lead access | Who receives the calls, scans or contacts the piece produces | What each side receives is part of its value. Shotwell turned on allegations that lenders “received significantly less leads than their co-marketing agents.” |
| Market value | What a stranger would pay for the same space | 1024.14(g)(2); NAR: “what a non-settlement service provider would pay” |
| Time | How long the piece runs | A monthly ad is measured month by month |
| Line | What it says (sample outline; your broker’s form comes first) |
|---|---|
| 1 · The piece | What, how many, where, and when it runs or mails |
| 2 · The parties | Each business by its legal name; your licensed brokerage name |
| 3 · The shares | Each party’s share as a percentage, and how it was measured |
| 4 · The vendors | Which invoice each party pays directly; copies exchanged |
| 5 · The content | Each party promotes its own business. No list member pays for promoting your listing. No rate or payment figure unless the lender’s compliance supplies and approves it (Golden Handcuffs). |
| 6 · Disclosures | Who paid; any material connection; for email, the one sender and who runs the opt-out |
| 7 · Referrals | Sample wording: “Nothing in this agreement is conditioned on, or measured by, referrals. Neither party will pay the other for referrals.” |
| 8 · Records | Invoices, proofs, ad reports, screenshots, and how long each party keeps them |
| 9 · Review | Who reviewed it (your broker; the partner’s compliance department), and when |
| 10 · Signatures | Both parties, dated, before anything is ordered |
Coach advice, paraphrased: Jamil Academy (Saad Jamil, May 14, 2026) suggests a one-page joint marketing agreement, each party paying vendors such as Meta directly so no money passes between partners, the lender paying its own signage and refreshments at an open house, no co-funding of purchased leads, and keeping invoices, ad reports and screenshots for five years. Its performance figures have no stated source; we do not repeat them. Your broker sets your retention period.
Use Snail Mail’s postage table (Dec 9, 2026, Lesson 2.3) and your printer’s written quote. Split every line by the same share.
| Line | Input | Math | Result |
|---|---|---|---|
| Pieces | EDDM Retail allows 200 to 5,000 pieces per day per ZIP Code | — | 5,000 |
| Postage | EDDM Retail flat, up to 3.3 oz: $0.26 a piece | 5,000 × $0.26 | $1,300.00 |
| Lender’s share | One quarter panel, same prominence as the rest | $1,300 × 25% | $325.00 |
| Agent’s share | The other three quarters | $1,300 × 75% | $975.00 |
| Printing and design | The printer’s written quote | Quote × 25% and × 75% | Your quote |
USPS Notice 123, effective Oct 4, 2026; usps.com EDDM page; prices as displayed Nov 4, 2026. No January 2027 mailing-services price change was listed on Nov 4, so check usps.com before you order. We found no published print price to use, so this book gives none.
| Two more, CALCULATED on the same prices | Math | Result |
|---|---|---|
| Florida Realtors’ example: title on one third, one 1,000-piece EDDM route | $260 ÷ 3 | Title ≈ $86.67 · agent ≈ $173.33 |
| 500 stamped, card-size postcards at the First-Class postcard price, $0.65 (Snail Mail, Lesson 2.3) | 500 × $0.65 | $325.00, split by the same share |
Read the program by its own terms, check what the lender actually gets, and know who pays if the lender walks.
Zillow’s terms, as Zillow describes them (Help Center “Co-Marketing Program Overview” and co-marketing FAQ, checked Nov 4, 2026; company terms, not law, and they can change without notice). From the lender co-marketing dashboard, a Premier Agent invites a lender and sets the dollar amount it would like the lender to contribute, “up to 50 percent of the agent’s total spend per lender.” The lender pays Zillow, not the agent, and is billed in arrears. The lender’s name appears alongside the agent’s ads. When a shopper also asks for financing information, Zillow sends that contact to the co-marketing lender. Within the program, lenders may not refer business to agents and agents may not refer business to lenders. Zillow deactivates lenders without an active NMLS ID. If a lender does not pay, Zillow charges the agent.
| Ask this | Why |
|---|---|
| What does the lender actually get each month: its name next to yours, how prominently, and which contacts? | Its share should match what it receives (1024.14(g)(2)). Shotwell (2019) turned on allegations that lenders got far fewer leads than their agents. |
| Is anything tied to referrals: exclusivity, steering, required prequalification? | Prospect (2017): a lender paid part of agents’ ads on a third-party website while requiring exclusive promotion. The order called those “payments for referrals.” |
| Does the lender’s share change when you send it more buyers? | A share that moves with referrals is evidence of an agreement (1024.14(e); Lighthouse, 2014). |
| Is your current Zillow product one that still has co-marketing? | Zillow calls lender co-marketing part of its “legacy advertising model” and is moving to Preferred (8-K, Aug 5, 2026). How co-marketing works under Preferred: not found. Check your dashboard. |
| If the lender stops paying, can you carry the whole bill? | Zillow bills the agent for the outstanding amount. |
Other portals. We found no primary-source lender co-marketing terms for Realtor.com or Homes.com, and no CFPB statement or court ruling specific to either. If a partner proposes one, ask the portal for its terms in writing. Shared-cost ad products sold by vendors (Evocalize, Homebot) are vendor claims; a vendor’s structure is not a legal clearance.
A counterpoint for discussion. One lender argues that co-marketing fees always end up in borrowers’ rates (JVM Lending, “Co-Marketing Fees = Higher Rates Always,” updated Nov 30, 2023). That is one lender’s opinion. Ask your own lender how it funds co-marketing.
The same split, in four more places. The branding test decides most flyers.
| Piece | The honest version | Not this |
|---|---|---|
| Open-house or listing flyer | You pay for your listing flyer. A lender may set out its own rate sheet, with its own branding, next to it. | A lender- or title-paid flyer that promotes your listing (NAR RESPA FAQ; Fla. 69B-186.010(4)(f), (m)). |
| Co-branded email | One sender, named alone in the From line, who runs the opt-out. Each partner pays its share of design and sending. Your brokerage name appears. | Two logos and no agreed sender. A partner mailing to your clients without disclosure and their okay (SOP 12-11 requires disclosure; The Data Line). |
| Social ad with a shared cost | Each partner pays its share on the platform or through the vendor directly. Both names visible. Brokerage name. Disclosure of any connection. | A partner “boosting” your listing post at its own expense. Audience filters by age or family. Fake followers or likes (16 CFR 465.8). |
| Your website | Your brokerage name next to your contact details. A partner’s logo only where it pays its own share of something real. | “Preferred lender” or “featured title partner” badges in exchange for payments (Fla. (4)(n); Prospect). |
| Rates and payments | Only figures the lender’s compliance supplies and approves, routed through The Golden Handcuffs Conversation. | Any rate or payment figure you or an AI made up. |
Luxury-car, wine or espresso imagery is about the house and the lifestyle, and price point is not a protected class. What crosses the line is people and targeting: sponsor art that shows only one kind of buyer, copy like “perfect for young professionals” or “adults-only open house,” or a sponsor’s customer list as the only way people hear about the home (42 U.S.C. 3604(c); 24 CFR 100.75(c)(1), (3); Fla. Stat. 760.23(3); SOP 10-3). HUD withdrew its 2024 digital-advertising guidance effective Sep 17, 2025, and said actions that do not comply with the Act “continue to be subject to enforcement” (91 FR 17291, Apr 6, 2026). Run every shared ad through the Fair Housing Firewall (Keeping AI Compliant, Sep 23, 2026), and say “open to everyone.”
Sample data. Avery drafts with Prompt 3, checks with Prompt 4, then sends it to her broker and to the lender’s compliance department.
The piece: a co-branded EDDM mailer (flat size) to Avery’s Sample Shores farm, 5,000 pieces, mailing the week of Jan 25, 2027. The partner: Harbor Sample Mortgage, on a quarter panel on the back, with its own message about its services and no rates. Shares: Harbor 25%, Avery 75%, measured by space, with the same type size. Vendors: the printer and mail house bill each party separately. Postage: $1,300 (CALCULATED, page 23). Printing: quote not yet received. Referrals: none. Brokerage: Sample Realty Group.
| Check | Result | Avery’s fix |
|---|---|---|
| Shares match what each party gets | PASS: 25/75, by space | None |
| Each party pays its own vendor | PASS | None |
| Any referral language | FLAG: “Avery agrees to refer buyers who need financing to Harbor” | Deleted. It contradicted the next sentence and her inputs. |
| Prices and figures | PASS: postage matches the calculation; printing marked NOT KNOWN, not guessed | Adds the quote when it arrives |
| Brokerage name on the piece | FLAG: not stated for the card itself | Added: “The card carries Sample Realty Group’s licensed name on Avery’s panel.” |
| Rates, disclosures, records | PASS | None |
Avery sends the corrected draft to her broker and to Harbor’s compliance department, with the measurement of the panels attached. Both approve it on Jan 14 (sample). Both sign. Only then does anyone order the cards.
What a general AI tool can produce from “write an exciting win-win partnership proposal from my lender to me.” Find the problems before you read the table.
| # | The line | What is wrong | Page |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | “your Preferred Lender Partner” | A preferred-status endorsement is one of the signs of a referral agreement in the cases; for Florida title it is named outright ((4)(n)). | 10 |
| 2 | “we cover 100% of your monthly farm postcards” | A list member paying for your mailers: a thing of value that fails the promotional check (1024.14(d), (g)(1)(vi)); Genuine Title. | 17 |
| 3 | “send your buyers our way” | An agreement to refer, in so many words (2607(a); 1024.14(b)). | 9 |
| 4 | “review … every quarter based on closed loans” | Value tied to the volume of business referred (1024.14(e)); Lighthouse. | 10 |
| 5 | “have buyers get preapproved with us” | Required use is a referral (1024.14(f)(2)); RGC Services. | 17 |
| 6 | “RESPA allows lenders to pay up to 50%” | That is Zillow’s product cap, not law. | 21 |
| 7 | “It’s a small thing anyway” | “There is no exception to RESPA Section 8 solely based on the value of the gift.” | 10 |
| 8 | “the CFPB isn’t enforcing RESPA anymore” | The statute and Reg X are unchanged; private suits, states and criminal referral remain. | 12 |
| 9 | “‘Today’s low rates!’ on your side of every card” | The lender promoting rates on your panel, paid by the lender; any rate claim goes through its compliance and Golden Handcuffs. | 25 |
| 10 | “Just mention us in a disclosure and we’re fully compliant” | Disclosure does not cure a kickback; only an affiliated business can rely on it (1024.15). | 15 |
| 11 | “Palm Sample Title will cater your Saturday open houses” | Florida bars it ((4)(k), (l); DFS: may not “just drop off food”). | 13 |
| 12 | “share your sign-in sheets so our loan officers can follow up” | SOP 12-11; Florida’s Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception (501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4)). | 14 |
Sample data, including an invented printer’s quote. Show your math, then write what you would say.
Avery and Harbor Sample Mortgage plan a co-branded EDDM mailer: 2,000 pieces, one ZIP Code, one day. Harbor’s panel is one quarter of the mailer’s printed area, with the same prominence as the rest. Sample printer’s quote, invented for this exercise and not a typical price: $480 for design and printing. Use USPS EDDM Retail postage as of Nov 4, 2026.
Answer key: Appendix A, page 41.
| Line | Vendor | Total (from a written quote) | Partner share % | Partner pays | You pay | Invoice # |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Design | ||||||
| Printing | ||||||
| Postage or ad spend | ||||||
| Other |
In Florida, the title agency attends, markets its own title business and pays its proportionate share. It never caters your open house. NAR’s RESPA FAQ describes the same pattern nationally; check your state’s rules.
| Not this (barred in Florida; risky nationally) | This instead |
|---|---|
| The title agency sponsors or hosts your open house (69B-186.010(4)(k)). | You host. The title rep attends a public open house as a guest with its own table. |
| The title agency pays for the food, or drops it off ((4)(l); DFS: a title agency “may NOT just drop off food”). | The rep attends in person with materials about what the title agency does. It may not provide food or drinks for your open house at no cost to you. Any refreshments are shared by a written proportional share, and the title agency pays only its part (DFS). |
| The rep describes the home, gives tours, hands out listing flyers, or “mans the event” while you are elsewhere (DFS). | The rep talks only about title: what title insurance is, what closing looks like, how to spot wire fraud. |
| A catered lunch for a broker caravan, dropped off (DFS: a time “when a title agency should be extra cautious”). | Our reading: skip it, or have the rep attend, present title information and pay its share. |
| Title pays for your open-house ads or signs ((4)(m)). | You pay for yours. A joint ad is split by space, with the title agency promoting its own title business ((5)(d)). |
Outside Florida. The NAR RESPA FAQ says a title agency reimbursing an agent’s open-house luncheon without marketing its own services there is a violation, and that it may be lawful if the title company attends and markets itself. That is NAR’s opinion, which NAR says does “not constitute legal advice.” Reg X’s exemption for promotional activities explains why: open-house food is a cost you would otherwise pay (1024.14(g)(1)(vi)). Check your own state’s title rules; we did not retrieve Texas or California.
Cars parked as staging are one thing. Cars offered for sale are another. Either way, the seller says yes in writing first.
| Ask | If yes | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Are the cars there only as staging, with no prices and no selling? | Props. The seller’s written yes on the House Rules; the dealer’s certificate of insurance; where the cars park; when they leave. | SOP 1-16; insurance is best practice, not law (no statute found) |
| Will anyone see prices, meet sales staff, take test drives or sign paperwork? | Our reading: that is a display for sale. In Florida the dealer needs a supplemental off-premises license: issued at no charge, for no more than 10 consecutive calendar days, to a licensed dealer that notifies the local department office of the dates and location, posts a sign at its licensed location, staffs the site, meets local permitting, and has the property owner’s permission. | Fla. Stat. 320.27(1)(c), (5) |
| Will you post about the cars or the dealer? | Show them as staging, never as for sale: only a licensed dealer may advertise another party’s car for sale. Disclose the connection where nobody can miss it: “Cars courtesy of Coastline Sample Motors.” | 320.27(2); 16 CFR 255.5(a) |
| Does the dealer’s staff want to send you buyers? | Thank them. No fee, gift card or “other compensation” for referring clients. | Fla. Stat. 475.25(1)(h) |
| Does the dealer offer to pay you for sending it car buyers? | Not RESPA and not 475.25(1)(h). Never advertise its cars for sale or act as its salesperson. Disclose any compensation, and clear it with your broker first. | 320.27(2); 61J2-10.028; page 18 |
| Does the imagery show only one kind of buyer? | Keep it about the house and the lifestyle. The invitation says “open to everyone.” | 3604(c); 24 CFR 100.75(c)(1) |
| Does the HOA or condo restrict parking, vendors or displays? | Ask the manager before you agree, and log the answer. | No statute found; Selling to Nosy Neighbors, Lesson 2.4 |
What the coaches show. Mauricio Umansky wrote that he partnered with a car brand to have two vehicles delivered to a listing for a VIP event (Inman, Mar 8, 2024). He gave no terms, so there is nothing to copy except the idea. In Florida, if any car at your listing is offered for sale, 320.27(5) decides it, and the property owner’s permission is part of the license.
A food truck is a licensed food business. A wine pour is a question we found no answer to. The post about either needs a disclosure.
| Partner | What to check | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Coffee or food truck | Its state license from Florida’s DBPR division. A city or county may not require a separate license or permit for the truck. The HOA or condo association can still say no: our reading is that the preemption binds governments, not private covenants. Food-safety operating rules: not researched. | Fla. Stat. 509.102(1)(a), (2)(a); 509.241(1) |
| Bakery, café or roaster serving at the house | The seller’s terms for the property, who cleans up, and its insurance. | SOP 1-16 |
| Wine or beer | Our default: no alcohol at a public open house. Selling alcohol needs a license; never serve anyone under 21. Whether a pour at no charge needs a license or permit: not found. Holiday Networking (Dec 2, 2026) covers host liability. | Fla. Stat. 562.12(1)(a); 562.11(1)(a); 768.125 |
| Reviews | No drink, discount or prize for a five-star review, and do not co-promote one. A thank-you offered for any honest review is not what 465.4 bans, but on our reading it is still a connection to disclose. | 16 CFR 465.4; 255.5 |
| Your post | “Coffee today courtesy of Sample Bean Roasters, at no charge to us.” Close to the praise, easy to read. Tag the truck if you like; a tag can itself be an endorsement. | 16 CFR 255.0(b), 255.5(a) |
| The sponsor’s follow-up | The sponsor does not get your sign-in list or your farm list for its own calls, texts or mail. | SOP 12-11; Florida’s Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception (Fla. Stat. 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4)) |
A sponsor at a neighbors’ hour follows The Front Porch (Selling to Nosy Neighbors, Dec 16, 2026): open to everyone, alongside full marketing, a second person present, and the sign-in card with a separate, unticked permission box. A box a visitor ticks for you does not let the sponsor contact them. If a visitor wants the roaster’s or the dealer’s information, the sponsor’s own cards are on the table.
We found no open-house cost survey with a stated method, so this book quotes no average. Build your own budget from written quotes (worksheet, page 32). Every line has one payer. Your signs, flyers and refreshments are yours. A sponsor’s table, cards and its own staff are the sponsor’s. A shared line, such as refreshments with a title agency, is split by a written share.
Ten lines from an AI-drafted plan for Saturday’s open house at 27 Mangrove Way, Sample Shores, Florida. All sample. Decide each before you open the key.
For each line, write Keep, Fix (and your version) or Cut (and why).
Answer key: Appendix A, page 42.
| Line | Vendor | Written quote | Who pays | Share, if shared | Invoice # |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Signs and printed materials | |||||
| Refreshments | |||||
| Sponsor’s table, cards and staff | The sponsor | — | |||
| Cars or furniture (staging only) | |||||
| Other |
One page per sponsored showing or open house, added to The Seller’s Yes. Eight lines. The seller ticks, signs and dates it; you file it with the listing.
| Line | Why it is there | Source |
|---|---|---|
| 1 · On the property | REALTORS® “shall not access or use, or permit or enable others to access or use, property on terms or conditions other than those established by the owner or seller.” As a single agent, your Florida duties include loyalty, obedience, and skill, care and diligence. As a transaction broker, which Florida presumes unless you agreed otherwise in writing, they include skill, care and diligence and limited confidentiality. | SOP 1-16 (amended, effective June 5, 2025); Fla. Stat. 475.278(1)(b), (2), (3)(a) |
| 2 · Insurance | No Florida statute found on vendors’ liability at a showing. A certificate of insurance and the seller’s written okay are best practice, not law. | Not found; best practice |
| 3 · Cars | Offering or displaying cars for sale makes the dealer a dealer at your listing. Our reading: price stickers or sales staff make it a sale display. | Fla. Stat. 320.27(1)(c), (5) |
| 4 · Food | A public food service establishment, including a food truck, must be licensed by the state; operating without one is a second-degree misdemeanor. | Fla. Stat. 509.102, 509.241(1) |
| 5 · Alcohol | No serving anyone under 21. Host protection has exceptions. The no-charge pour question is unanswered. | Fla. Stat. 562.11(1)(a), 562.12, 768.125 |
| 6 · The check | No statute found on HOA vendor rules or local open-house signs. Make the one phone call to the city and the HOA manager, and check your brokerage’s event policy. | Selling to Nosy Neighbors, Lesson 2.4 |
| 7 · Everyone | No ad or statement that indicates a preference or limitation based on a protected class. | 42 U.S.C. 3604(c); 24 CFR 100.75; Fla. Stat. 760.23(3); SOP 10-3 |
| 8 · The list | Disclose before you share consumer information. Florida’s Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception. | SOP 12-11; Fla. Stat. 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4); The Data Line |
Sample data. One page for one open house with three sponsors. Your broker’s form comes first.
| Line | What the seller approved |
|---|---|
| Event | Public open house, Sat, Jan 23, 2027, 1–4 p.m. Live in the MLS since Jan 11 (sample). Open to everyone. Seller not present. |
| 1 · Palm Sample Title | ☑ A title-information table on the patio, rep present 1–4 p.m. ☑ Refreshments, with title materials, shared under the written agreement of Jan 15. ☐ Describing the home, giving tours or handing out listing flyers (no; Florida bars it anyway). |
| 1 · Coastline Sample Motors | ☑ Two vehicles parked in the driveway as staging, 12:30–4:30 p.m. ☐ Prices, sales staff or test drives (none; no off-premises license). ☑ Removed by 5 p.m. |
| 1 · Sample Bean Roasters | ☑ Coffee truck on the street in front of the house, 1–4 p.m. ☐ Anything inside the home. ☑ Takes its own trash. |
| 2 · Insurance | Certificates on file: Coastline (received Jan 19), Sample Bean Roasters (received Jan 19). Both current through the event date. |
| 3 · Cars | Staging only. No price stickers, no sales staff, no paperwork on site. |
| 4 · Food | Sample Bean Roasters’ state license number on file (Jan 19). |
| 5 · Alcohol | None. |
| 6 · The check | HOA manager, by e-mail, Jan 15: vendors allowed at the street, not in common areas. City clerk, by phone, Jan 15: sign rules noted. Brokerage event policy checked. |
| 7 · Everyone | Invitations and posts say “Open to everyone.” On-site sign and posts carry the disclosure lines (page 35). |
| 8 · The list | The sign-in list stays with Avery. No sponsor receives it. Sponsors’ own cards are on their tables. |
| Signed | Seller B, Jan 20, 2027 · Avery Cole, Sample Realty Group |
Seller B, Avery Cole, Sample Realty Group, the three sponsors and 27 Mangrove Way are invented for this book.
| AI may | AI may not |
|---|---|
| Draft the eight lines from your notes and each sponsor’s request (Prompt 5, page 46). | Decide what the seller allows, or tick a box. |
| Mark a missing license, certificate or HOA answer as NOT KNOWN. | Fill a gap with a guess, or say a sponsor is “compliant.” |
| List what to collect, and by when. | Contact a sponsor, the HOA or the city for you. |
Some sellers want no sponsors at all, or no cars, or no truck on the street. You do not need to know why. Mark it on the House Rules, tell the sponsor that day, and plan the open house without them. A sponsor’s offer never outranks the seller’s terms.
The paperwork is done before anyone arrives. On the day, every sponsor stays inside its line. Afterward, the records go in one file.
| When | Do this | Done means |
|---|---|---|
| A week out | Seller signs the House Rules. Collect each license and certificate of insurance. Make the HOA and city check. Write the disclosure lines. If the home is not yet live, check its marketing path first (Private, Preview, or Public?, Nov 11, 2026). Your broker approves the plan. | A signed page and a full file |
| The day before | Confirm each sponsor’s arrival and departure times. Print the disclosure sign and the sign-in cards, with the separate, unticked permission box. Book your second person. | Times confirmed; cards printed |
| During | Sponsors stay where the sheet says. The title rep talks only about title. No prices on cars. No alcohol. The sign-in cards stay in your hands. Photos follow the seller’s terms. | Every line on the sheet kept |
| After | Sponsors leave by the agreed time. Sweep the house and yard before you lock. File invoices, the House Rules page and the posts. Follow up only with signed boxes (The Front Porch); Florida’s Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception (501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4); Holiday Networking 2.7). Thank sponsors with a note, not a payment. | House locked; file complete |
| Within a week | Check each partner’s share against what it actually got. Adjust the next agreement in writing if the shares were off. Never adjust anything because of referrals. | Shares reconciled |
Eight moments from the week of a sponsored open house, all sample data. Decide each one, and name the House Rules line that decides it.
For each, write Go, Fix (and how) or Stop (and what has to happen first).
Answer key: Appendix A, page 42.
| Test | If yes |
|---|---|
| Is the sponsor about to do something the signed House Rules do not allow? | Stop it at the door, kindly. SOP 1-16. |
| Is a license, certificate or HOA answer missing or out of date? | Stop until it is on file. |
| Would anyone the seller did not approve, or anything not on the page, be on the property? | Stop and ask the seller. |
| Does the change reach only the people a sponsor chose? | Fix: full marketing, and “open to everyone.” |
| Does money move because of a referral? | Stop if you would pay an unlicensed person; disclose and ask your broker if the dealer would pay you. |
Sort first. Split second. Then one sponsored event, if your seller wants it, with every page signed before anyone arrives.
| When | Do this | Done means |
|---|---|---|
| Wed, Jan 6 today | List every co-marketing arrangement you have, and every offer you have been made, with the name on each invoice. Ask your broker for the co-marketing policy and the form it uses. Do Exercise 1. | A list, with payers |
| Thu–Fri, Jan 7–8 | Run the Sponsor Sort (Prompt 1). For every RESPA-column partner, ask its compliance department for its co-marketing rules in writing. Do Exercises 2 and 3. | Every partner in a column |
| Mon–Wed, Jan 11–13 | Pick one pooled piece: a co-branded mailer, a portal ad or a flyer. Measure the shares. Get written quotes. Do Exercise 4. | Shares measured; quotes in hand |
| Thu–Fri, Jan 14–15 | Draft the one-page agreement (Prompt 3) and check it (Prompt 4). Send it to your broker and the partner’s compliance department. Sign only after both approve. | A signed agreement, or a polite no |
| Tue–Fri, Jan 19–22 | Mon, Jan 18 is Martin Luther King Jr. Day; city offices are closed. If a showing or open house will have a sponsor: draft the House Rules (Prompt 5), walk your seller through it, and collect licenses, certificates and the HOA and city answers. Draft the invitation and disclosure lines (Prompt 6). Do Exercises 5 and 6. | A signed House Rules page and a full file |
| Sat, Jan 23 – Sun, Jan 31 | Run the event, or mail the piece. Disclosure sign and posts as written. Sign-in list stays with you. Each partner pays its own vendor. | It happened as signed |
| Mon–Fri, Feb 1–5 | File invoices, proofs, ad reports and screenshots. Check each share against what each partner actually got. Follow up only with signed boxes. On Fri, Feb 5, count. | File complete; shares reconciled |
Those are the only targets in this book. There is no savings target, no lead target and no listing count, because we found no data that would support one. If you want a number of your own, set it and call it a goal, not a forecast. If a call or text is part of any plan, Florida’s Do Not Call law comes first. It has no acquaintance exception (Fla. Stat. 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4); Holiday Networking, Lesson 2.7).
Every one of these is normal. Each has a fix.
| Symptom | Likely cause | Fix |
|---|---|---|
| The partner says “everyone does it this way” | Habit | “Maybe. I still need the shares on one page, and my broker signs off first.” |
| The partner’s compliance department never answers | Busy, or the plan is unusual | Nothing runs until it does. Ask your broker to call theirs. |
| The printer will only bill one party | Its system | Ask your broker how to handle it before anything is ordered. Do not front the partner’s share. |
| The AI draft adds a referral clause or a rate | Partnership boilerplate | Delete it. Prompt 3 gets your real inputs only; Prompt 4 checks. |
| The lender wants its share to depend on the buyers you send | That is a referral tie (1024.14(e)) | “Your share follows your space, not my buyers.” If it insists, decline. |
| The dealer wants to sell on the day | Sales are its business | Off-premises license and the seller’s written yes, or staging only. |
| The HOA says no to the truck | Its rules | Move it off community property if allowed, or skip it. |
| The seller says no to sponsors | Their home | “Understood.” Plan without them. |
NAR’s 2026 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers. Not released as of Nov 4, 2026. If it is out, use its open-house figures instead of the Generational Trends report. Checked on: ________
The 2027 NAR Code of Ethics. Its page returned an error on Nov 4, 2026. Check Articles 6 and 12 and SOPs 1-16, 10-3 and 12-11 against it. Checked on: ________
USPS prices. No January 2027 mailing-services change was listed on Nov 4, 2026. Check pe.usps.com before you order. Checked on: ________
Zillow co-marketing. Confirm in your current dashboard that the lender invite and the 50% cap still exist, and whether they apply to your product. Checked on: ________
Florida DFS’s title-agent page and CFPB guidance status. Confirm the wording is unchanged and nothing was withdrawn. Checked on: ________
Nobody is marking this but you. Tick only what you could do tomorrow, in front of a partner or your broker, without this book open.
| ✓ | I can… | Module |
|---|---|---|
| Explain pooling as shared reach, not a way to have my marketing paid for, in one sentence | 1 | |
| Quote the NAR 2026 Member Profile medians with their labels, and never add them together | 1 | |
| State RESPA Section 8 in plain words, and say that the agent who accepts is liable too | 2 | |
| Run any partner payment through the promotional, market-value and conduct checks | 2 | |
| Name four CFPB matters with the year, what was paid for and the outcome, and say the Zillow investigation closed with no finding | 2 | |
| Say what changed at the CFPB in 2025 and what did not | 2 | |
| Say what Florida’s title rule bars and permits, and what DFS says about open-house food | 2 | |
| Sort any partner into the RESPA or local-business column, and ask “Is a list member paying through them?” | 3 | |
| Explain why inspectors, insurers and home warranty companies are in the RESPA column, and HUD’s open-house example | 3 | |
| Write an Honest Split in eight parts, with each share measured and the math shown | 4 | |
| Explain why Zillow’s “up to 50 percent” is a product cap, not a fair-share test | 4 | |
| Run a title rep, a lender, a car dealer and a coffee truck at an open house the way this book teaches, with my broker’s sign-off | 5 | |
| Get a House Rules page signed, with licenses, insurance and the HOA answer on file, before any sponsor arrives | 6 | |
| Write the disclosure lines for a sponsored event, and keep the sign-in list with me | 5–6 |
| Item | My answer |
|---|---|
| The pooled piece or sponsored event for this plan | |
| Partners sorted by Fri, Jan 8: how many, with the name on each invoice | |
| Each RESPA-column partner’s compliance contact, and the date they answered | |
| The shares, and how I measured them | |
| The date my broker approved the agreement | |
| The date my seller signed the House Rules, or “no sponsor” | |
| Invoices on file by Fri, Feb 5: how many | |
| Who holds me to these dates |
Your wording will differ. Check it for the idea, not the words. Verdicts are our reading of the cited sources; your broker decides. Education, not legal advice.
| # | Verdict | Why |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Permitted | Real advertising at market value, proportionate space and share, documented (2607(c)(2); 1024.14(g)(2)). NAR’s RESPA FAQ says a 50/50 ad with 50/50 space appears compliant (NAR’s opinion, not legal advice). |
| 2 | Prohibited | A list member paying for your mailers (1024.14(d), (g)(1)(vi)); in Florida, 69B-186.010(4)(f). The fix: the title company pays only its proportionate share, for a panel that promotes its own title business ((5)(d)). |
| 3 | Prohibited | Value connected to the volume of referrals is evidence of an agreement (1024.14(e)); Lighthouse (2014). |
| 4 | Permitted | The provider’s own branding, no listing promotion (NAR RESPA FAQ; CFPB Gifts FAQ 2). |
| 5 | Prohibited | Home warranty companies are settlement services (1024.2(b)(11)), and handing out their material at an open house is a referral (HUD, 75 FR 36271, 2010). Paying for your signs is a thing of value. |
| 6 | Permitted | Florida allows title logo items up to $25 each, never gift cards (626.9541(1)(m)2; 69B-186.010(5)(a)). The CFPB still says value alone is no exception, so items aimed narrowly at referral sources are a question for your broker. |
| 7 | Prohibited | Services at no charge to agents are a thing of value (1024.14(d); Reg X App. B illus. 1); Freedom Mortgage (2023). |
| 8 | Prohibited | Requiring a particular provider is a referral (1024.14(f)(2)); RGC Services (2017). |
Where more than one answer is defensible, the key says what makes the difference.
| # | Column | First rule or step |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | RESPA | Mortgage brokers are on the list (1024.2(b)(2)). The Honest Split: it pays its own share of the mailer, by space. |
| 2 | RESPA | Inspectors are listed (item 8). Paying for your signs covers your costs: decline. |
| 3 | RESPA | Insurers are listed (item 11). A seminar open to the public and to all local agents is “more likely” to qualify (Gifts FAQ 3). Each pays its own share; ask your broker. |
| 4 | RESPA | Home warranty is listed (item 11), and its material at an open house is a referral (HUD, 2010). Decline. |
| 5 | Local business | The House Rules: staging only, or the dealer’s off-premises license (320.27(5)); insurance; the seller’s yes. FTC disclosure if you post. |
| 6 | Local business | FTC disclosure on the tagged post (255.5); no reward for reviews (465.4); the truck’s license and the House Rules. |
| 7 | RESPA | A list member is paying through the stager. Decline. In Florida, compare 69B-186.010(4)(r). |
| 8 | Local, usually | Off the list unless a settlement provider requires it (item 15, our reading). If it pays you, disclose the benefit when you recommend it (Article 6; our reading for movers). |
| 9 | Local business | On the property, so the seller’s terms (SOP 1-16). Disclose the connection if you praise it. |
| 10 | RESPA, likely | A repair a lender requires may fall under item (15) (our reading; no CFPB statement). Paying for your newsletter covers your costs. Ask your broker; until then, decline. |
Florida’s title rule, the House Rules and the disclosure line decide most of these. Your broker’s policy comes first.
| # | Verdict | Why, and the better line |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Cut | Florida bars a title agency from sponsoring, hosting or paying for food at your open house (69B-186.010(4)(k), (l)); DFS calls catering realtor open houses a violation. Use line 2 instead. |
| 2 | Keep | The rep attends, markets title and pays a proportional share in writing (DFS guidance; (5)(d); our reading). |
| 3 | Cut | DFS: a title agency may not “man the event” without a Realtor. You host your own open house. |
| 4 | Keep | The lender’s own branding, no listing promotion (NAR RESPA FAQ). |
| 5 | Cut | A lender paying for flyers that promote your listing is paying part of your advertising (NAR RESPA FAQ). You pay for your flyers; Harbor sets out its own rate sheet. |
| 6 | Fix | “Two SUVs from Coastline Sample Motors are on display as staging; they are not for sale today.” Selling on site needs the off-premises license and the owner’s permission (320.27(5)), and only the dealer may advertise them for sale (320.27(2)). |
| 7 | Cut | An incentive conditioned on a positive review (16 CFR 465.4). |
| 8 | Fix | Add the connection, close to the praise: “Coffee today courtesy of Sample Bean Roasters, at no charge to us.” (255.5(a)). A tag can itself be an endorsement. |
| 9 | Fix or cut | Our default is no alcohol at a public open house. Never anyone under 21 (562.11). The no-charge pour question is unanswered: ask your broker and counsel first (House Rules, line 5). |
| 10 | Cut | The list stays with you (SOP 12-11; Florida Do Not Call has no acquaintance exception, 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4); House Rules, line 8). |
| # | Verdict | Why |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Stop | A display for sale with no off-premises license (320.27(5)). Stickers off and no salesperson, so it is staging only, or the cars go. Line 3. |
| 2 | Stop | The clubhouse lot is a common area, and the HOA can say no (509.102 binds governments, not covenants, our reading). Move to where the HOA allows, or skip. Line 6. |
| 3 | Stop | No sponsor arrives before the House Rules page is signed. It adds to The Seller’s Yes; it is not covered by it. |
| 4 | Go, if the seller pays | Only if the seller, not a title agency or another list member, pays the stager (page 19). The seller ticked it (SOP 1-16). If you post praise and the stager gave you anything at no charge, disclose it. |
| 5 | Stop | Until a current certificate is on file. Line 2. |
| 6 | Stop | The list stays with you. The rep may thank anyone who handed it a card directly. Line 8. |
| 7 | Fix | A sponsor’s customer list cannot be the only way people hear about the home (24 CFR 100.75(c)(3)). Full marketing, and “open to everyone.” Line 7. |
| 8 | Stop, then ask | Paying the salesperson for sending you buyers violates 475.25(1)(h). The dealer paying you is not RESPA and not 475.25(1)(h), but you may not advertise its cars for sale or act as its salesperson (320.27(2)), and any compensation must be disclosed (61J2-10.028; Article 6, our reading). Clear it with your broker before agreeing. |
One page for your desk. Florida rules shown; your broker and your state come first.
Lenders and mortgage brokers · title and settlement agents · attorneys, notaries, document preparers · appraisers, credit reports · inspectors · hazard and flood insurers, home warranty companies · property-tax services · you, the agent. Edge: item (15), a service a provider requires.
No paying for your open houses, open-house food, flyers, listing ads, virtual tours, leads or “preferred” badges (69B-186.010(4)). Joint marketing only at its proportionate share, promoting title ((5)(d)). The rep attends; it may not “just drop off food” (DFS).
Jan 6–8 sort · Jan 11–15 split and sign · Jan 19–22 House Rules · Jan 23–31 run it · Feb 1–5 file and count.
Use an AI tool your broker approved, with training off and clients’ names removed. AI drafts and organizes. It never signs, sends or negotiates, and never invents a price, a share or a legal conclusion.
Below are co-marketing offers I have received. Your goal is to sort each one into the RESPA column or the local-business column and list my first question for each. It is not to decide whether any offer is legal, to accept or answer any offer, or to add offers.
OFFERS: [offer #; business; type of business; what they offer, in their words; WHO PAYS EACH INVOICE]
MY STATE: [ ]
Make a table: offer #, business, COLUMN (RESPA / LOCAL BUSINESS / NOT KNOWN), the 12 CFR 1024.2(b) item if RESPA, FIRST QUESTION, NEXT STEP (Honest Split / House Rules / decline and ask my broker).
RULES:
- RESPA column: lenders, mortgage brokers, title and settlement agents, attorneys, notaries and document preparers, appraisers and credit-report providers, inspectors, hazard, flood and mortgage insurers, home warranty companies, property-tax services, agents; mortgage life or disability insurers only if the lender requires them. If a settlement provider requires the borrower or seller to pay for the business (item 15), write NOT KNOWN and "ask my broker".
- For every row ask: "Is a list member paying through them?" If any invoice goes to a list member, put the row in the RESPA column and say why.
- If the payer or the business type is missing, write NOT KNOWN. Never fill in a guess.
- No legal conclusions: write "ask my broker". Do not contact anyone.
Then list the NOT KNOWN rows, and tell me to check every row by hand against the invoices before I reply to anyone.
Below are the measurements and written quotes for one shared marketing piece. Your goal is to calculate each partner's share of each cost line and show the math. It is not to suggest a split, round to 50/50, estimate any price, or say whether the split is lawful.
THE PIECE: [what, how many, where, when]
EACH PARTNER'S AREA: [partner: measured area; whole piece: total area]
PROMINENCE NOTES: [front/back, logo size, anything uneven]
LEAD ACCESS: [who receives the calls, scans or contacts]
COST LINES FROM WRITTEN QUOTES: [line: vendor: amount: quote date]
Make a table: cost line, total, each partner's percentage, each partner's dollars, with the arithmetic shown.
RULES:
- Use only the numbers I gave you. If a quote, amount or measurement is missing, write NOT KNOWN in that cell. Never fill in a guess, and never invent a price.
- Shares follow the measured area. List the prominence and lead-access notes beside the table for me to judge; do not adjust the shares yourself.
- If anything I typed ties a share to referrals, buyers sent or loans closed, FLAG it.
- No legal conclusions: write "ask my broker".
Then tell me to re-add every line by hand and attach the measurements to the agreement.
Prompt 3 drafts from your real inputs only. Prompt 4 flags problems; it does not decide what is legal.
Your goal is to draft a one-page joint marketing agreement from the terms below, for my broker and my partner's compliance department to review. It is not to negotiate, add terms, sign, send, or say the agreement is compliant.
THE PIECE: [ ] THE PARTIES: [legal names; my licensed brokerage name]
SHARES AND HOW MEASURED: [paste from Prompt 2]
VENDORS AND WHO PAYS WHICH INVOICE: [ ]
EACH PARTY'S CONTENT: [what each panel or message promotes]
EMAIL (if any): [the one sender; who runs the opt-out] RECORDS: [what each keeps; period set by: ]
Ten lines: the piece; the parties; the shares; the vendors; the content; disclosures; referrals; records; review; signatures.
RULES:
- The referrals line says only: "Nothing in this agreement is conditioned on, or measured by, referrals. Neither party will pay the other for referrals." Add no other referral language anywhere.
- No rate or payment figures unless I say the lender's compliance department supplied and approved them.
- No list member pays for promoting my listing or covers my share of any cost.
- Use only my terms. If a term is missing, write NOT KNOWN. Never fill in a guess, a price or a share.
- One page. Draft only: do not sign, send or negotiate anything.
Then tell me to run Prompt 4 on the draft and send it to my broker and the partner's compliance department before anyone signs.
Below is a draft agreement, proposal, ad, mailer, email or post involving a marketing partner. Your goal is to flag anything for me to fix before my broker reviews it. It is not to rewrite it as a stronger pitch or to decide what is legal.
THE TEXT: [paste] THE PARTNER AND ITS BUSINESS TYPE: [ ] WHERE IT RUNS: [ ]
Answer PASS, FLAG or NOT KNOWN for each, quoting the line:
1. A partner paying for my mailers, ads, flyers, signs, food, tools or subscriptions, or more than its own share.
2. Any share, renewal, bonus or review tied to referrals, buyers sent, loans or closings.
3. "Preferred", "approved" or "featured" status for a partner; any required use of a provider.
4. Any rate or payment figure. 5. A statement about the law ("RESPA allows", "fully compliant", "not enforced").
6. My licensed brokerage name; who paid; any material connection disclosed close to the praise.
7. For email: one named sender and the opt-out. 8. Sharing my sign-in or client list.
9. Rewards for reviews; fake followers. 10. Who the home is for, or targeting by who people are. 11. Calls or texts to consumers (Florida's Do Not Call law has no acquaintance exception, 501.059(1)(k), (3)(d), (4)).
RULES:
- Quote the exact words for every FLAG. If you cannot tell, write NOT KNOWN. Never fill in a guess.
- No legal conclusions: write "ask my broker". Send, post or sign nothing.
Then remind me to run any ad copy through my Fair Housing Firewall and send it all to my broker.
Prompt 5 drafts the page your seller signs. Prompt 6 drafts the words visitors will read. Neither decides anything for you.
Below are my notes for a sponsored showing or open house. Your goal is to draft a one-page House Rules sheet, with a box for my seller to tick on each line, to add to my signed Seller's Yes. It is not to decide what my seller allows, to say any sponsor is compliant, or to contact anyone.
EVENT: [address, date, times, public or private, seller present Y/N]
EACH SPONSOR: [name; business type; what it asked to do; where; arrival and departure]
ON FILE: [each sponsor: certificate of insurance and date; state license and number; dealer off-premises license if any car is for sale]
CHECKS: [HOA or condo answer, who, date; city answer, who, date; brokerage policy checked Y/N]
Eight lines: 1 on the property (per sponsor: may / may not); 2 insurance; 3 cars (staging only, or license); 4 food (license); 5 alcohol (none to anyone under 21); 6 the checks; 7 "open to everyone" on every invitation and post; 8 the sign-in list stays with me. End with signature and date lines.
RULES:
- Any missing certificate, license or answer: write NOT KNOWN on that line. Never fill in a guess.
- Tick nothing. Every box is blank for my seller.
- No legal conclusions: write "ask my broker". Draft only.
Then list every NOT KNOWN, and tell me nothing happens until each is on file and my seller signs.
Your goal is to draft three short pieces for a sponsored open house: the invitation, the on-site disclosure sign, and one social post. It is not to add facts, make the event sound exclusive, post, print or send anything.
LISTING FACTS MY SELLER APPROVED: [paste from my Seller's Yes]
EVENT: [date, times] MY NAME AND LICENSED BROKERAGE NAME: [ ]
EACH SPONSOR AND WHAT IT PROVIDES: [name; what; paid by whom or at no charge to me]
RULES:
- Every piece says "Open to everyone" and carries my licensed brokerage name.
- Disclose each sponsor's connection in plain words, close to any praise (for example "courtesy of [sponsor], at no charge to us").
- Say the cars are staging and not for sale. Never advertise a car for sale.
- Mention a sponsor on the property only if I confirm my seller signed the House Rules.
- Never describe who the home or event is for, or any kind of person. No ages, families, background or lifestyle groups. No alcohol unless I say my broker approved it.
- Never say my services cost the client nothing. No rewards for reviews. No rates.
- Only facts I gave you. If something is missing, write NOT KNOWN. Never fill in a guess.
Then tell me to run all three through my Fair Housing Firewall and send them to my broker before anything is printed or posted.
Generic sample wording, not quotes. Every line keeps the shares honest, the payer clear and referrals out of it. Fill each blank only with something real.
| # | The line | When | Fill the blank with |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | “I’d like to do this together. Let’s each pay for our own part, by space, and put it on one page.” | Opening the talk | Nothing |
| 2 | “What’s my share, in dollars, and whose invoice is it on?” | Any offer of “support” | Nothing |
| 3 | “Each of us pays our fair share of this ad, based on our actual space.” | Setting the split | Nothing (Golden Handcuffs, script #8) |
| 4 | “Your panel is ___ of the piece, so your share is ___%.” | Showing the math | The measured area; the percentage |
| 5 | “Let’s each pay the printer directly, on separate invoices.” | Vendors | The printer’s name |
| 6 | “Thanks, but I can’t have you cover my part. You’re welcome to your own panel, at your share.” | A partner offers to pay your costs | Nothing |
| 7 | “Nothing in this depends on referrals, in either direction.” | Any time referrals come up | Nothing |
| 8 | “I can’t agree to a share that changes with how many buyers I send you.” | A volume-based offer | Nothing |
| 9 | “Your compliance team should see this before we sign. Who should I send it to?” | Before signing | Nothing |
| 10 | “My broker approves every co-marketing agreement. I’ll have an answer by ___.” | Before signing | A real date |
| 11 | “In Florida, your rep attends in person and talks about title. Title can’t provide the food at no cost to me; any refreshments are split by our written shares.” | A title agency offers food | Nothing |
| 12 | “I host the open house, and I pay for my own signs and flyers.” | A partner offers to sponsor it | Nothing |
| 13 | “Your rate sheet is welcome on the counter, with your own branding.” | A lender at the open house | Nothing |
| 14 | “I can’t put a ‘preferred’ badge on my site for a partner who pays toward my marketing.” | A badge request | Nothing |
Practice the awkward ones out loud. They get easier the second time.
| # | The line | When | Fill the blank with |
|---|---|---|---|
| 15 | “I never require buyers to use a particular lender. The choice is theirs.” | A prequalification request | Nothing |
| 16 | “The sign-in list stays with me. Visitors who want your information can take your card.” | A sponsor asks for the list | Nothing |
| 17 | “Before you bring the cars, my seller signs a one-page sheet. Staging only, no prices.” | A car dealer | Nothing |
| 18 | “If you want to sell on site, you’ll need your off-premises license and my seller’s written permission.” | The dealer wants to sell | Nothing |
| 19 | “Could you send your certificate of insurance by ___?” | Any sponsor on the property | A real date |
| 20 | “Could you send the state license number for the truck?” | A food truck | Nothing |
| 21 | “I’ll check with the HOA manager and the city first, and let you know by ___.” | Before you agree | A real date |
| 22 | “I’ll say on the post that you provided the coffee at no charge.” | A business wants a tag | Nothing |
| 23 | “I can’t offer anything for five-star reviews, but an honest review is always welcome.” | A business wants reviews | Nothing |
| 24 | “That’s kind. I can’t pay for referrals, but I’d be grateful for an introduction.” | Someone unlicensed offers clients “for a cut” | Nothing |
| 25 | “Every invitation says ‘open to everyone.’ We don’t aim it at anyone by who they are.” | A sponsor wants to target its customers | Nothing |
| The partner says | You practice |
|---|---|
| Lender: “Everyone splits Zillow 50/50. Just invite me and we’re done.” | Lines 2, 3 and 7. Then: what Harbor actually gets, and who pays if it stops (page 24). |
| Title rep: “We always do lunch for our agents’ open houses.” | Lines 11 and 12. Offer the title table and the written share. |
| Dealer: “We’ll bring the cars and a salesperson. Buyers love test drives.” | Lines 17, 18 and 19. Staging only, unless it holds the license and your seller says yes in writing. |
Several of these have no settled answer we could find. That is the reason to ask. Write down who answered, and when.
| # | Question | Ask | Answer, who, date |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Do we have a co-marketing policy and a form? Who approves an agreement before I sign it? | Broker | |
| 2 | How do we document market value and each partner’s share, and which records do I keep, for how long? | Broker | |
| 3 | If a vendor will bill only one party, how do we handle the partner’s share? | Broker | |
| 4 | May I accept a vendor price that is lower because a lender co-sponsors me? | Broker, counsel | |
| 5 | Do we own, or are we affiliated with, any lender, title or insurance business? What disclosure do we use? | Broker | |
| 6 | What is our policy on sponsors at showings and open houses: insurance, our name on certificates, alcohol? | Broker | |
| 7 | A non-settlement business offers to pay me for referring clients to it. May I accept, and how do I disclose it? | Broker, counsel | |
| 8 | Which portal co-marketing do we allow, and on which current products? | Broker | |
| 9 | What are your written co-marketing rules? Do you require a market-value analysis? | Partner’s compliance | |
| 10 | Who approves any rate or payment figure on a shared piece? | Partner’s compliance | |
| 11 | (Florida title) How do you apply 69B-186.010 and the DFS guidance to open houses and shared ads? | Title compliance | |
| 12 | Is our co-hosted seminar, open to the public and all local agents, within 1024.14(g)(1)(vi)? | Counsel | |
| 13 | Does a dealer’s car parked as staging, with no prices, count as “displaying” it for sale under 320.27(1)(c)? | Counsel | |
| 14 | Does a pour of wine at no charge at an open house need a license or permit in Florida? | Counsel | |
| 15 | What are [community]’s rules on vendors, food trucks, vehicle displays and open-house signs? | HOA manager, city clerk | |
| 16 | (Outside Florida) What are my state’s title-inducement, advertising, license-law and Do Not Call rules? | Broker, counsel |
Plain definitions for the terms in this book.
Affiliated business arrangement. A provider you own part of. The only RESPA route where disclosure, in the required form, makes the arrangement lawful (2607(c)(4); 1024.15).
CAN-SPAM sender. Every business promoted in an email, unless one is named alone in the From line and meets the Act’s duties (16 CFR 316.2(m)).
Coach advice. Practice advice from a coach, lender or trade outlet. Experience, not data. Paraphrased in this book.
Co-marketing. Two or more businesses sharing the cost of one piece of marketing. Here: pooling resources.
Course of conduct. How a referral agreement can be proven without words: value received repeatedly and connected to referrals (1024.14(e)).
EDDM. Every Door Direct Mail: flat-size pieces to whole carrier routes, without names. $0.26 a piece at retail as of Nov 4, 2026.
Fair market value. What a stranger would pay for the same goods or services. NAR: “what a non-settlement service provider would pay.”
Honest Split. System 2. Each partner pays for its own share, measured by what it gets, in writing, straight to the vendor, with nothing tied to referrals.
House Rules. System 3. The seller’s signed page for a sponsored showing or open house, added to The Seller’s Yes.
Lead access. Who receives the calls, scans or contacts a piece produces. Part of what each partner gets.
Marketing services agreement (MSA). A contract in which a provider pays someone to market it. Lawful only for real services at market value, never for referrals.
Material connection. A relationship, payment or goods given at no charge or at a discount that might affect how an audience weighs an endorsement (16 CFR 255.5).
Off-premises license. A Florida dealer’s supplemental license to sell away from its lot, for up to 10 consecutive days (320.27(5)).
Our reading. This course’s interpretation of a rule. Not agency language, not legal advice, not a safe harbor.
Pooling resources. Sharing the cost of marketing that reaches an audience all partners want, each paying for its own part.
Pro rata share. A share in proportion to what each party gets, as NAR and Florida Realtors describe it.
Promotional check. Reg X’s exemption for promotional and educational activities: not conditioned on referrals, and not covering costs the referrer would otherwise pay (1024.14(g)(1)(vi)).
Referral. Any action that affirmatively influences someone’s choice of a settlement provider, including required use (1024.14(f)).
RESPA Section 8. The federal ban on referral fees, kickbacks and unearned splits in settlement services (12 U.S.C. 2607).
Regulation X. The CFPB’s rule that carries out RESPA (12 CFR Part 1024).
Settlement service. Any service listed in 12 CFR 1024.2(b), from lending and title to inspections, insurance, home warranties and your own.
Sponsor Sort. System 1. Sorting every partner into the RESPA or local-business column, ending with “Is a list member paying through them?”
Thing of value. Money, discounts, services at special rates or at no charge, or paying another person’s expenses (1024.14(d)).
Vendor claim. A company’s statement about its own product, not independently checked.
Zillow Preferred. Zillow’s pay-at-close program, which partners pay when a transaction closes (Zillow 10-K, FY2025).
Checked Nov 4, 2026, unless noted. “Via” means we read a report of the source, not the source itself. Vendor claims and coach advice are labelled where they appear.
Rules change. Confirm the current text before relying on any of these. Florida rules are examples; other states differ.
To Your Next Listing,
Edmund Bogen
Because Marketing Alone is NOT an Option!